There is something about waking this morning to a white world outside that put in me the desire to do something special. You know how some experiences can be linked to a song you were listening to at the time, or even to a fragrance which, years later, may randomly seize you and take you back again? Well, I wanted something to link this snow-day with…a fun new item, a place visited…
Unfortunately, much of my day has been spent preparing for the Why Know banquet this evening. Preparations included decorating the banquet hall at the Trade Center and lunch with Stephen Arterburn. Interesting fellow, amiable and very pleasant. During lunch, he several times made a point of stating that people need to be reached with more than the Word: he used phrases like, “You could teach them the Ten Commandments, or you could give them something practical,” and “If you’re working with a poor boy, you could make him memorise Scripture or you could teach him how money works and how to manage it.” I understand the need for practical skills; still, I couldn’t help but wonder if God’s Word was being belittled and refused its full power and authority, according to Stephen’s thinking. Are not all problems, at core, spiritual issues? And what has the authority and ability to change and heal, if not the Word of God? Teach the poor boy money skills, yes–but as he learns these, make him a disciple worthy of his Lord and show him all that Jesus said about money and the love of it. Otherwise, you will mend his poverty with greed.
But I am a simple man. The group at lunch was speaking of counseling; when I think of counseling, I think of Jesus’ words that He (our Wonderful Counselor) would send us a Comforter in the Holy Spirit, who guides us into all truth, convicts the world regarding sin, and reminds us of all that Jesus commanded us. The Spirit counsels us all through the Word, either directly or through members of the Body. And so a man’s role in counseling another would seem to be, also, to remind them of all that Jesus commanded–the whole counsel of God! Anything less would seem to rest on my own wisdom–and how little I understand the other person’s fullest need, how poorly I would estimate the measure of brokenness to which they must be brought!
I even wondered, as they spoke about young people and the supposed harshness or coldness of pointing them straight to the Word, if these counselors really know the benefit of wounding, injuring the one being counseled to the purpose of healing. It is not a bad hting to be broken, yet their words made it sound like that was the thing to be avoided above all things. They use their pragmatic wisdom in applying principles–but to be honest, I would rather trust the Word to know where someone needs to be broken-hearted; to divide them, joint and marrow; and to provide the soul-surgery which I could never give. Is this too simple? I cannot believe so…
Well, time to go get dressy for the evening’s occasion.